We're an all-volunteer gay men's outdoor group,
organized to enjoy well-planned, safe, non-competitive activities. These
include both day and overnight wng_trips all over the Southeast, and sometimes
longer treks to exotic places. Some wilderness-related events - like museum
visits, backpacking clinics, or our quarterly potlucks - are right in town.
Check our Calendar of Events for more examples.
We aren't a nudist or sex club
(though skinny-dipping at a secluded swimming hole or remote beach is
occasionally a nice option). The fellowship is sincere and down-to-earth,
friendships form naturally, and relationships do sometimes develop - just as in
any other large social group. There is no pressure to be or do anything that
doesn't suit you - except to participate, as our
state, "in a spirit
of good will, mutual respect, and discretion."
Not very. Because we know gay men can't always afford to be
open about their sexuality, we respect individual comfort zones and needs for
privacy. Hugs are sometimes exchanged at events when people say hello or
goodbye, but we don't announce that we're a gay group, and members tend to be
very discreet. We're actually hard to distinguish from any other group of
people enthusiastically involved in an outdoor activity. If you don't want your
information printed in the Membership Directory, it won't be. All the
information you give us is confidential and kept within WNG. No one outside our
group need even know you're a member.
The
state, "Membership in WNG is open to all gay and bi-sexual men at least eighteen (18) years of age...",
but we rarely have teenagers.
Some of us are in our twenties, but most are in our thirties and forties. A
number of us are in our fifties and sixties as well. We've been described as
the "post-bar" crowd, but everyone is welcome. We enjoy many varied and
satisfying activities, but we don't go in for excessive partying.
No. We aren't an exclusive clique at all. On a typical hike or
overnight, maybe half of the group will be old friends or recent acquaintances
and half will be new members or first-time visitors. We almost always have a
few couples as well as a number of single guys. Different men prefer different
types of activities, and every group is unique.
Group size varies greatly depending on the event, but an average
trip may have a dozen people. A few trips have size limits because of space
available in campsites, cabins, rafts, etc. A few trips, like Horsepasture River
or Sapelo Island, attract and accommodate very large groups.
They vary from things practically anyone
could do to things you'd need to be rather fit to do. Generally our outings are
low-stress and moderate in difficulty. Reading the description of the event will
tell you a lot about how demanding it might be. Always check with the trip leader
if you are unsure of the difficultly level.
Whenever possible, trip
leaders are eager to accommodate participants with physical limitations.
Not a problem. If you're
willing to give it a try, we'll help you. We like to introduce beginners to
day-hiking, car camping, canoeing, backpacking, whitewater rafting - and even
caving, rockclimbing, or whatever we think of next. You needn't have any
experience or gear. We'll show you what you need to know, loan you equipment,
or tell you where you can rent it. Usually someone else will have what you need
anyway.
Ask about any trip posted on the Calendar, and you'll be put in touch
with the trip leader who'll gladly give you details. If it sounds good, sign
up as a visitor and go, alone or with a friend you'd like to bring. You're
expected to join before going on a second trip, but that isn't a strict rule.
Another good option that will acquaint you with many other visitors and members
is to attend one of our quarterly potluck/planning meetings, the location is
announced in the calendar quarterly. The food and the fellowship are
outstanding, as you might expect.
For dues of $20 a year you get a quarterly newsletter with access to
many varied events - most of them
on weekends, some during the week. You can also send and receive e-mail
messages via the WNG Listserv which posts upcoming events, changes,
cancellations, and other matters of interest to members. You get a membership
directory with names, addresses, phone numbers, and e-mail addresses of over 300
other members who wish that information to be available only to our group.
You're eligible (and encouraged) to offer any wilderness-related event of your
choosing and post it on the calendar and on the Listserv. Leading a trip is
really the best way to become part of the network and get the most out of WNG,
and co-leading with a more experienced member is a great way to start. We're
also eager to have you volunteer in other ways - perhaps to help set up for
potlucks, to take a shift at the WNG booth at Pride each summer, to serve on the
Executive Committee, or to hold an office. We have a normal turnover of
volunteers, and we continue to need new people and ideas.
Simply go to membership page and follow the instructions provided
there. We hope you'll soon be discovering that WNG is a great way to enjoy
wilderness experiences with a fine group of guys.
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